Advice on creating a profile that gets you noticed.
If you were hoping to find a separate playbook and set
of rules when it comes to no strings dating for the plus-size lady,
forget it. There is no "How to attract men if you are curvaceous
and large manual" however the good news is you really do not need
one. There are plenty of guys out there fat and thin tall and small
who are attracted to women with rockin’ curves.
Until large ladies understand that some men prefer fat
women they are always going to place an unnecessary psychological barrier
in the way of finding a true love or a fun sex date. You only have to
walk down the high street and see couples out together to see that men
are attracted to all shapes and sizes. Be self confident in who and
what you are fat is sexy and fat is desired by many men so do not allow
your size to get in the way of any kind of dating.
Okay feeling confident about yourself can be easier said than done so
if you are feeling self-conscious pick out one thing that is awesome
about yourself and direct your focus to it. Maybe you have a great set
of tits; an amazing set of hips, a big round ass or a stunning complexion,
there will be something about you that is ultra appealing to a guy even
if it isn't obvious to yourself.
This is where online dating sites profile pages are so important. It
can seem a frustrating task filling in a profile but with a little care
and imagination you can create a profile that really makes you stand
out from the crowd. Again be confident when filling out your profile,
you are selling yourself and although tooting your own horn might not
come natural it is something you are going to have to do.
A picture says a thousand words, don't fall at the first hurdle by using
a photo that is not up to date or doesn't show you at your best. It
might be a little tricky when selecting or taking a picture for a no
strings sex site but where possible have a friend take a photo of you.
The best photographs are always achieved when they are slightly above
you pointing down. With this in mind position yourself seated on a chair
of even a bed, if standing ask your friend to stand on a chair to ensure
the camera is above you and pointing down.
Take a picture smartly dressed and then another as daring as you are
willing to go, remember this is a sex dating site for bbw's so no you
don't look fat and yes the guy would love to see you in your lingerie,
semi or fully naked. Make sure your surroundings are clean and tidy
and for privacy and discreteness double check what else is showing up
behind you in the picture.
As for the writing about yourself part, follow the prompts at each
stage, I’m not going to tell you what to write or which boxes to tick,
for the best results you need to be as honest as possible. Once again
if you have a friend who you can trust ask them how they see you. Avoid
complaining or mentioning your past, always start off with something
positive to say or something that you enjoy doing and never leave a
section blank or write in that you don't know what to put or that you
are stuck for words. Just be positive and remember you can always edit
and fine tune your profile at a later date.
